Monday, January 6, 2014

Lisa’s Story: The Training Centre

The Training Centre at the Calgary Sexual Health Centre provides a number of professional development opportunities for service providers. Our training ensures that professionals have the skills and knowledge to integrate sexual health into their everyday work with clients.

Here's a personal story from one of our Training Centre clients!

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When Lisa Seel-Thompson at Calgary Family Services hires new staff for a Spirit or Starburst program, she often sees something missing right off the bat.

“I’ve had staff come in who are amazing youth workers – they love youth and can have every other conversation with them. But when it comes to sexual health they’re frozen. It scares them."
 
But that quickly changes, says Seel-Thompson, after exposure to the Training Centre workshops from Calgary Sexual Health Centre. She’s worked with the Spirit/Starburst programs, which are aimed at junior high girls, for more than ten years and is a strong advocate for incorporating CSHC’s programs into staff practice.

“For example, a young person might come up to a youth worker and say, ‘I think I’m gay, how do I talk to my parents about this?’” says Seel-Thompson. “These are big life questions and it can be overwhelming for staff when they’re new and they haven’t had to deal with the sexual health part. The relationship with CSHC has allowed us to be mentored around this subject – how to talk to young people and be more comfortable and confident.”

From sessions on creating a safe space for LGBT clients, to helping clients who have had negative sexual experiences, Seel-Thompson says the interactive workshops have a format that works.

“I like that you can just have real, open, honest conversations in the workshops. I’ve had really, really in-depth conversations that I’ve never had in any other training, and that’s reflective of the value of Calgary Sexual Health.”

When asked if she would recommend the training to others, Seel-Thompson maintains that it’s critical.

“I feel very strongly that it’s important for organizations to do this. Young people need to be well-informed and therefore the people who are leading youth need to be informed ­­– they could even do damage if they don’t know what they’re talking about,” she says.

“If you’re working with youth, you should be really well informed about sexual health, since that’s 90% of the conversations we have with youth. It’s such a big part of their decision-making and their lives and trying to figure out who they are.”

And how has it affected the people who really matter – the girls themselves?

“I really see that young people know they can walk into our spaces and it’s a safe place,” says Seel-Thompson. “I think that’s a direct result of me and my staff feeling confident and comfortable because of the information we’ve learned. We feel well-informed and we’re so well supported.”

“We really value that partnership with CSHC, and we’ll continue to rely on it to inform our practice and make sure we stay relevant. We’re just a huge fan of Calgary Sexual Health Centre.”
 
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Talk to us about our upcoming workshop schedule, or to have us deliver a workshop at your organization. Please note that workshops can be customized to meet the particular needs of your staff and the clients you serve.

  
Each program as a stand-alone can be delivered in approximately half a day, but programs may be combined to create a full day or more, based on agency needs.

To book a training session for your organization, or to discuss customized training, please contact:     

Valerie Barr
Training Centre Manager
403-283-5580 Ext. 317 or
vbarr@calgarysexualhealth.ca

Thursday, January 2, 2014

New Year! New workshop schedule!


We are pleased to ring in the new year with our Winter 2014 workshop schedule!

 

“Facilitating Healthy Relationships”

February 26, 2014   
9am – 12pm

In this workshop, participants will gain knowledge and tools to help youth navigate the challenges of developing healthy relationships in today’s world.  Practical activities and frameworks for helping youth make conscious and healthy sexual decisions are also examined and applied to real life situations.

Fee: $50.00 per person, including workshop materials

 

“Supporting Sexuality with Older Adults”

March 12, 2014  
9am – 12pm

Designed for those working with older adults, participants will increase their confidence and comfort talking with clients about sexuality.  Participants receive practical suggestions, tips and resources to start talking about sexual health and advocating for sexual well-being with older adult clients.

Fee: $50.00 per person, including workshop materials

 
 
“Supporting Sexuality with People with Disabilities”

April 9, 2014   
9am – 12pm

This session is designed for professionals working with people with developmental disabilities.  Participants will explore their own attitudes about sexuality and receive practical suggestions for engaging clients in conversations about sexual health and well-being.  This workshop will also help professionals to set boundaries around what is appropriate behaviour, clarify age of consent guidelines and make referrals to community resources.

Fee: $50.00 per person, including workshop materials 

  

“Youth and Media:  Responding to Sexual Bullying”

May 15, 2014 
7 – 9pm 

How have new media and technology changed young people’s views of sexuality and relationships?  In this session we will look at the reality of what is accessible and how youth are responding.  Most importantly we will explore the role of parents and professionals in facilitating healthy sexual decisions including healthy use of technology.

Fee: $20.00 per person, including workshop materials

 
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 Location:
Calgary Sexual Health Centre
#304, 301 14 Street NW, Calgary, AB


To Register:
Call Valerie Barr at 403. 283. 5580 ext. 317
vbarr@calgarysexualhealth.ca

or

Call Becky Van Tassel at 403. 283. 5580 ext. 323 

Please Note: Level “A” Alberta Social Work Continuing Education Credits are available for attendance these workshops via a partnership with the Calgary Counselling Centre


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Want to bring a workshop to your organization? We can customize our sessions to suit your needs.

To book a training session for your organization, or to discuss customized training, please contact:

        
Valerie Barr
Training Centre Manager
403-283-5580 Ext. 317 or

vbarr@calgarysexualhealth.ca


 

Saturday, December 21, 2013

YOUTH! Join "fYrefly in Schools" workshop in 2014!


Calling all Calgary area YOUTH!

If you are under 25 and you want to improve school climates for all students, particularly LGBTQ students, join us for our “fYrefly in Schools” training day to learn how to be a youth panelist at these amazing workshops in Calgary and area schools!
 
We are looking to train 20 youth to help deliver school-based presentations throughout the 2014 school year. All "fYrefly in Schools" presentations are facilitated by experienced presenters in conjunction with student panelists.

If you are interested in becoming a new youth panelist in Calgary, join us for our training on:

Saturday, February 1
st, 2014
10:00 am – 3:00 pm


Calgary Sexual Health Centre
Suite 304, 301 14th Street NW
 

RSVP by January 29th to confirm your attendance at training.  For more information or to RSVP, email: finscalgary@ualberta.ca or phone Nick at 403.283.5580 ext. 308.



See our Facebook event: https://www.facebook.com/events/422846404507771/

Share our info poster!


 

Thursday, November 21, 2013

Key Area 3: Healthy Communities --> a personal story


There are three key areas that CSHC is focused on: Healthy Bodies, Healthy Relationships and Healthy Communities. These focus areas speak to the core of our work; they support our vision for the community and the mission we are on to achieve it.
In this series of blogs, we present some of our success stories that highlight a program from each of our three focus areas.
 
In this blog, we look at a "Healthy Communities" personal story.
 
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Lemlem’s Story: FAIR (Families Achieving Inclusive Relationships)


When you ask Lemlem Haile what her first experience was when she became involved in FAIR – Families Achieving Inclusive Relationships, the word you’ll hear first is “surprise.”


“I thought maybe it would be a hard conversation to have, that people wouldn’t want to come to our first meeting. I was surprised by the response; people really wanted to understand and talk about sexual health, especially with their kids.”


She’s talking about her initial reaction to Calgary Sexual Health Centre’s community development project that reaches out to immigrant parents. As a Community Social Worker with The City of Calgary, she often works with immigrant communities and was invited to the first meeting as a community partner.


“The first dialogue we had was about how do we talk about this as a community? What are your strategies to talk to your kids?” says Haile. “And they had questions, like ‘how young is too young to talk to your kids?’ And we said if they’re old enough to understand, talk to them. And that was where parents were like, yeah, I’m going to go talk to my three-year-old son – it was an ‘aha’ moment for a lot of parents.”


The project offers support and information to help parents talk to their children about their family values and how they connect to healthy relationships and healthy bodies. She says parents were especially engaged once they started talking about the safety of their children.


“We talked about how the more parents make it safe for them to talk, the more these kids will come home and talk to their parents instead of going on the internet for answers.”


Haile says perhaps one of the most important aspects of FAIR is the way facilitators bring the parents in as partners and ask for their feedback.


“The parents were really engaged,” she says. “They were reviewing the information and they had a say and they gave us really good ideas. They were the ones who suggested that instead of a Sexual Health Guide, let’s call it a Parent Guide, and it really is – it’s about relationships and values.”


Most of all, Haile believes that it’s the respect for different cultures that makes FAIR successful. She says the program helps people bridge the conversations they’re already having in a religious or cultural context with accurate sexual health information.


“There’s a fear and perception that someone else might push their values on a community,” she says. “But everyone talks about sexual health, every religion talks about it – it’s just a different way of presenting the information.”

Monday, November 4, 2013

Congrats to our Blake Spence - Top 40 Under 40!

We are thrilled to congratulate our own Blake Spence - program coordinator of our Wise Guyz program - on being selected as one of Avenue Magazine's Top 40 Under 40!

He is being recognized for his amazing work with the Wise Guyz program, as well as his entrepreneurial drive in other areas of his life.

Read the full article here:
http://www.avenuecalgary.com/top-40-under-40/blake-spence



Learn more about our WiseGuyz program - and how you can support this important work - at www.WiseGuyz.ca.

Friday, October 25, 2013

Key Area 2: Healthy Relationships --> a personal story

There are three key areas that CSHC is focused on: Healthy Bodies, Healthy Relationships and Healthy Communities. These focus areas speak to the core of our work; they support our vision for the community and the mission we are on to achieve it.

In this series of blogs, we present some of our success stories that highlight a program from each of our three focus areas.
 
In this blog, we look at a "Healthy Relationships" personal story. We believe good relationships and sexual health are inextricably linked. Our emphasis on healthy relationships means that our programs are having an impact on the issues of bullying, homophobia, and violence prevention, just to name a few. Whether it’s with parents, professionals or youth, our programs discuss healthy decision-making, communication, self-esteem and awareness of your own boundaries and values.
 
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Healthy Relationships:  Leslie’s Story - WiseGuyz
 
“It’s all boys all the time,” laughs Leslie McRae, Vice Principal at Sherwood School.
 
Leslie McRae, Vice Principal at Sherwood School
(photo credit: Evolution New Media)
Those boys are a small group of grade nine students taking part in the WiseGuyz program at the school. Once a week they meet in a designated classroom for part of the school day and Tristan from Calgary Sexual Health Centre facilitates the program.
 
To someone peeking inside the classroom, sometimes it looks like a regular healthy sexuality class, sometimes it looks like boys roughhousing and joking around. But something more important is really going on.
 
This is a program that teaches boys about consent and healthy relationships, not just STIs and anatomy. It’s challenging the boys’ views of masculinity and teaching them to look critically at the media messages they see every day. It’s tackling bullying and homophobia. It’s a program about respect and empathy.
 
“This is really the only thing out there that’s just for boys,” says McRae. “It’s so important to have something directed just to them about things they wonder about, delivered by people who can address those things.”
 
“They have somebody who’s open to hearing things that they’re talking about and lets them be silly and ask weird questions.”
 
She recently saw the impact of the program when an RCMP officer came in to talk to the school.
 
“It was a fairly deep presentation; he talks about things like suicide and bullying, family issues that you don’t talk about. The boys who stayed behind after the assembly to shake his hand and say thank you were the WiseGuyz.”
 
“They grow from the program, and they feel more confident,” she says. “They start to look at bigger issues, rather than just ‘if it’s my issue’ – that’s really what I see from their actions.”
 
McRae also says that one of the most unexpected outcomes for her is the bonds the boys make with one another: “There are boys who are friends because of the program who never would’ve been friends without it.”
 
When asked why the boys want to be there and keep coming back, her answer is simple.
 
“They know they’re valued,” she says. “For some boys it helps keep them in school, helps keep them engaged, helps keep them connected to somebody who, if or when things go south in the future, they have one more positive adult role model to look to.”
 
McRae can’t say enough good things about the program and looks forward to working with WiseGuyz again in the new school year.
 
“It’s hard to be a teenager, whether you’re a girl or a boy,” says McRae. “The more people you have in your life telling you positive things, helping you be informed, creating a structure you can access resources from – it’s not such a big unknown world.”

Thursday, October 3, 2013

Celebrated Leader of Sex Positivity to visit Calgary

 
 
Dr. Charlie Glickman Tackles Sex, Shame and Love for Calgary’s Diverse Communities
 
CALGARY, AB - - Shame influences and shapes sexuality for almost everyone, regardless of gender, sexual orientation, and individual desires.  Many experts believe that if we want to overcome and move past sexual shame, we need to understand how it works and how it affects us. Next week, Calgary will welcome Dr. Charlie Glickman, an internationally renowned sex educator and speaker, to explore and understand this issue through conversation.
 
At a public talk presented by the Calgary Sexual Health Centre (CSHC), Dr. Glickman will unpack the mechanisms of shame, discuss how it impacts sexuality, and what we can do to build shame resilience.
 
“When we have the tools to deal with this difficult but inevitable emotion, it becomes much easier to resolve jealousy, loss, and fear so we can create more space to give and receive love, explore our authentic selves, and build the relationships that suit us,” explained Dr. Glickman.
 
“As a sex & relationship coach, I've seen how deeply shame affects individuals and couples. Part of the challenge is that it's hard to even talk about it,” Dr. Glickman continued. “But when we can get a handle on how shame works, we can start letting go of it and create happier relationships and healthier sex lives. My presentation "Sex, Shame, and Love" has helped others take their next steps towards that and I'm looking forward to bringing it to Calgary.”
 
The event fits well with the overall work of CSHC, an organization that has worked in the Calgary community for over 40 years to deliver comprehensive and non-judgmental sexual health education and advocate for important changes in our society on sexual health issues.
 
“At our organization, our work is deeply rooted in reducing the shame connected with people’s sexuality. Our education, outreach and counseling programs help people examine the roots of shame and oppression which affect people’s ability to have healthy relationships,” said Pam Krause, Executive Director of CSHC.  “We provide people with the knowledge and resources to move forward, build confidence and address how shame is impacting their self-esteem and relationships.”
 
The public event is taking place at the University of Calgary’s Rosza Centre on October 10th at 7:00pm. For more information, or to purchase tickets, visit http://sexshameloveyyc-estw.eventbrite.ca. Tickets are $20, however if cost is a factor, please contact CSHC at 403-283-5580.
 
(More details also available in the news release.)
 
 
Talks in the Series
 
Sex, Shame & Love
Thursday October 10th.  7:00pm-9:00pm
Rosza Centre (Evans Room). University of Calgary - 2500 University Dr NW
Presented by the Calgary Sexual Health Centre
Early Bird/General Admission Tickets at: sexshameloveyyc.eventbrite.ca
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Don’t Blame Me. Creating a Culture of Consent on Campus
Friday October 11th. 11am – 1pm
Mount Royal University
Free Workshop Presented by SAMRU Pride & SAMRU Sustainability Centre
Earlier this month, campuses across Canada were put into the public spotlight for 1st year frosh rituals that promoted rape, assault, coercion and violent acts towards women.  Dr. Glickman, who started in peer support when attending university, will meet with students leaders and the MRU campus community to discuss why young men (--and others in their peer groups) feel compelled to perform masculinity through such acts. Little is actually known about how masculinity is defined, taught and enforced. Together with the MRU community, he will discuss new ways that compassion,  accountability and a culture of consent can be integrated on campus.

 
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Anal Sex & Prostate Pleasure
Friday October 11th. 7:00pm-8:30pm
Advanced Tickets Only at: peggingyyc.eventbrite.ca
Are you curious about anal play? Have you heard how much fun prostate pleasure can be? Or maybe you’ve tried it and want some tips to make it even more fun? Charlie Glickman wrote the book- literally! He'll give you all the info you need to discover the thrill anal sex. And if you or your partner (or both of you!) have a prostate, he'll tell you all about this amazing erogenous hot spot. Come learn all about easy and pleasurable anal penetration, prostate massage, which toys work best, pegging, combining prostate pleasure with other kinds of sex, and much more. Whether you’re just starting out or you already enjoy these pleasures, you'll end up with lots of new tips and ideas! You can also purchase a copy of Charlie's book The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure!

 
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Queer is a Verb
Saturday October 12th -
1:00pm-2:00pm Workshop/2:00pm -3:00pm Q&A
Presented by Possibilities – Calgary’s Bi-sexual and Pan-Sexual Community
Community Wise Resource Centre - 223 12th Avenue SW
Regular Admission & By Donation Tickets at: queerpossibilities.eventbrite.ca
What does it mean to queer something? In a world that's full of sweeping statements and gender essentialism, what happens when we think of queering as an act that we can engage in, rather than an adjective or an identity? How does it shift our thinking about the Myth of the Normal, the gender binary, and inflexible sexual categories? When we make queer a verb, it becomes a powerful tool for exploring, transcending, and transforming boundaries and definitions. It allows us to play with the rigid limits that are often imposed on sex and gender. And it can inspire us to create new ways to build the world around us. Charlie Glickman PhD, sex & relationship coach and certified sexuality educator, will discuss some of the ways that thinking of queer as something we do rather than something we are can offer new perspectives, and explore some tools for engaging in the practice of queering sex, gender, and sexual orientation.
 

 
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Saturday Night Fever - An Intimate Evening & BBQ with Charlie Glickman
Saturday October 12th
7pm-11pm
Have you ever wished you could ask a sex expert anything? What would you do if you could get any question about sex or relationships answered? Charlie Glickman PhD is a sex & relationship coach, a certified sex educator, and has been studying sexuality for over two decades. He's here for a private evening for select folks to get together and get lots of in-depth info you can't get elsewhere. Charlie is an expert on open relationships, BDSM & kink, sex & shame, gender & masculinity, top-notch communication skills, and more. Come join us for a night full of fun, insight, and discovery! Participation is Extremely Limited.
 

Monday, September 30, 2013

NEWS RELEASE: We want sexual health to go viral... in the social media sense of the word!

Embracing social media in the new age of non-profit sustainability
 

CALGARY – Sexual health is going viral – in the social media sense of the word. The Calgary Sexual Health Centre (CSHC) is launching its “#ChangeMaker” campaign which will aim to create a buzz with social media audiences in an effort to raise much needed funds. Known for innovative approaches in its work and its 40 year history of pushing for change around sexual health issues, CSHC will be looking to a few bold supporters to stand up as ChangeMakers – and to help spread the love.


“We’ve been having a lot of fun with our social media presence, and we’ve found it’s been a great tool to support our mission to normalize sexual health,” said Pam Krause, Executive Director of CSHC. “We get to interact with our followers on everything from sex ed basics to broader societal issues that drive our work, like consent and sexual rights. It gives us the ability to connect with our supporters in a whole new way and to reconnect with the underlying societal issues that have sparked our passion for over 40 years. ”


With their #ChangeMaker campaign, CSHC aims to engage supporters in reconnecting with their own personal reasons for why they choose to support CSHC’s work, and to share it online. But the organization cautions that standing up as a ChangeMaker requires bold commitment.


“We are looking for 100 people – just 100 people – to come forward with a donation of $1000 to be a ChangeMaker,” Krause explained. “It’s a big ask, but its in support of big changes on big issues.”


“Our supporters have always been an audacious bunch. Together we have stood proud on so many hard-fought issues; reproductive rights, LGBT equality, non-judgmental sexual education in our schools. This campaign aims to bring public focus back to these important issues, and to rally our audacious supporters to join us in making important change.”


In keeping with their history of incorporating new approaches, the organization’s #ChangeMaker campaign will include a social media component which aims to inspire Calgarians to be a ChangeMaker – or to help find a ChangeMaker.


“Share your personal reason for creating change. Maybe you’re one of the 100 people who can donate to be a ChangeMaker, or maybe you’re a youth or parent or concerned citizen who encourages a ChangeMaker to step forward,” said Krause.
 
“Visit our website, print a ChangeMaker sign to write down your personal reason, then share a self pic or video with us on Twitter or our Facebook page. Together, we are using social media to bring a face to some big social issues and make some big social changes.”


The organization is also using the campaign as an opportunity to explore using Vine, a new app that lets the user record and share short looping videos. Globally, the nonprofit world has been typically slow to embrace social media in their work, including Vine. The CSHC hopes the video app will offer a creative and compelling addition to their social media toolkit.


For more information about CSHC’s #ChangeMaker campaign, visit www.change-maker.ca or tweet the organization at @YYCSexualHealth.

 

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Media contact:

Pam Krause, Executive Director               Office:  (403) 283-5580 ext. 314
Calgary Sexual Health Centre                   Email:   pkrause@calgarysexualhealth.ca